OFFICE ROMANCE CAUSES MORE HARM THAN GOOD !

many would agree with me that office romance has destroyed many lives, while some would definitely say otherwise. have heard of many cases on how dating in the office has shattered a lot of people emotionally and it was quite difficult for them to get out of the mess.

here are some reasons why you should indulge in it:

DISRESPECT:
 yes you enjoy each others company and you are with each other every minute,it could be fun actually, but some how along the line the height of respect you once had for each other would gradually begin to fly away. most times its not done purposefully, it just happens.

WORK BEGINS TO SUFFER
 at this point you are too engross with your emotional life that you forget that you are been paid to do what you do, and you are responsible for some responsibilities at where you work. all you think about is him/her, you want to be with your partner even during working hour, its ok to hang out during your break time, but many over do it by neglecting their officail duties for their partners which causes setback for them at there place of work.

LACK OF PRIVACY
 your partner eyes are on you 24/7. you do not have privacy, he/she is always checking up on you. at times we need space away from our partner, but in this kind of atmosphere, its out of the question, you eat, you breath, you cough, you sneeze, everything you do, he/she is aware of it. some times they even have syndicates, mostly friends/colleagues in the same office whom they use to monitor you as well, especially when they are not around.

JEALOUSY
having a jealous partner at the same office where you work means trouble. when he /she sees you with someone else they get mad, even when you aint doing anything wrong and just having a friendly conversation with that person. at the end of the day, it just looks like you are inprison, and someday the urge to break free will surely come.

LESS ROMANTIC DATES
you cant actually have your cake and eat it. because you have spent so much time together during the week already, most times your partner do not see the need of going on dates during the weekend. they rather prefer you probably have quality sex at home, as that might have been missing during the week. the enthusiasm is not always there unlike when you have to see that person only weekends.

DIFFICULT TO MOVE ON AFTER BREAK-UP
break ups we know are always difficult to handle especially if you really loved that person. its more difficult to move on when you work in the same office with that person. every time you see him/her your wounds are re-opened and memories of the good time you spent together keep flooding your mind. it would take you a whole lot of time to heal. many even end up quitting their jobs because they are unable to deal with it. space helps in healing your wounds and that is absolutely what you cant get when you have to work daily with the person whom you broke ties with.