FEATURE: FLING TO LOVE

                                   
many of us often fall a victim of falling in love with our fling. especially we ladies, because we are  a bit soft hearten than the opposite sex. now have seen cases when a lady has gone through a lot of heartbreak or emotional trauma and decide not to invest emotionally in any relationship. she sees having a fling as a way out, then as time goes on you fall in love with a guy whom its suppose to be conceptual sex existing between both of you. its always a difficult moment dealing with your emotions in a case like this. you wouldn't be able to tell the other person your true feelings and you keep getting hurt.

though some get into a real relationship and are happy through fling,that only happens when the feelings are mutual. if it's a one sided love, then you up for a serious heart break. the mistake some of us make, is try to force the guy into a relationship after knowing he doesn't love you and still sees you as a fling, while you are seeing what two share as a relationship, he still sees it as a fling because you are the one inlove. at this stage you become expectant, there are some things you expect him to start doing, and when that doesn't happen you become heart broken. truth is, you cant blame the guy simply because not every one is good at faking things.

except he falls in love with you genuinely the way you fell for him, you might not  have an happy relationship even though you both claim to be dating. the foundation on which the relationship started has rubbed you off your happiness. when you start complaining, he sees it as nagging, and when it gets too much, he would want to opt out. most times i advise people that when you fall in love with your fling, simply let that person know and cut it off . maybe with time he could have a re-think and want to try having a real and lasting relationship with you, let him initiate it first. you forcefully having him to be in a relationship just because you fell for him, always backfires most times. so if you going true something like this, kindly think twice before taking action.