Feature: Don't let him get comfortable hurting you

                                    
every woman deserves to be loved and treated like a queen.you deserve to be happy, do not endure your relationship, but rather enjoy it. staying in an unhappy relationship is quite unhealthy. we sometime do that in the name of love, we love to the extent that we remain in a relationship that causes nothing but pain to us under the delusion that he would change when he sees how much love you give him.truth is not every one is so lucky, in some cases the guy later develops feelings and changes for the best and try to correct all the wrong he has done to you.


but at times we wait for so long, and that doesn't happen, and we keep getting hurt day by day, sleepless nights, physical abuse, you just find yourself emotionally drained. some of us remain in such relationship due to fear and uncertainty. you are not sure if you would meet someone better than him, or if you will be able to stop loving him, have you ever for once told yourself you deserve nothing but the best? when you let go, time heals wound, you might not stop loving him immediately, but with time you will surely find that person who would treat you right and make you feel like a queen that you are.

changing your thinking is very vital. look at yourself in the mirror, love every part of you, never let anyone bring you down,always remember you worth something, when you allow a man make you feel like you are worth nothing, it goes a long way to ruin your self confident. never let him bring you down no matter what the situation might be.ladies are quite very emotional, when we love, we love we all our heart and when that love is taking for granted we almost loose our mind in sadness.

don't get comfortable allowing him take advantage of your emotions, many men get comfortable hurting a lady because they know they would always be forgiven, they get use to hurting you and asking for forgiveness knowing so much you will surely forgive, sooner or later it becomes a lifestyle, a regular occurrence,why would you subject yourself to that? why do we always let our feelings get in the way, even when we want to take action, our feelings gives us away.

that's why its essential to work on your emotions, take hold of your life, stand for something or you end up standing for nothing. make him understand how you want to be loved, if he cant love right, respectfully walk away, there is always someone out there waiting to love you.